Finally! Finally, for the first time in the nine months that we have had Bodhi, for the first time in nine months of yowling and hissing and strife, the boys were able to share the bed with me in it!
They mostly get along by now (with a few bumps here and there)--Bodhi is a very dominant cat, and Jack is a momma's boy only child who doesn't get how to follow kitty rules, and so I think they've just had an awful lot of misunderstandings. Jack I raised from a kitten; Bodhi was my two-year old shelter boy. Bodhi is also dreadfully codependent towards me and needs love all the time. He spends a lot of time chasing Jack off from getting attention.
Anyway, they've worked most of this strife out, except for: the bed. The bed, with Mom in it, was the last bit of territory that both of them would fight over. Jack starts yowling as soon as Bodhi sets paw one on the mattress. I've had to put Bodhi in the garage a lot of nights because he'll come and sit and stare at Jack trying to intimidate him away, and Jack has been so bullied in other parts of his life I just can't bear to shut him away. It's only when I'm in it, too, so it's obviously the Mom-time they're working out. It's made for some very sleepless and unpleasant nights.
But finally, last night, I woke up to find Jack curled up against my back, and Bodhi curled up against my legs, and everyone quiet and peaceful and happy (except
hplovescats, whose snoring I should after five years be used to). Success! Kitty love! Hoohaa! What a great night.